I'm feeling a little better thanks. My new flat is a few minutes drive away from here, I've had mixed reviews about the area but it looked nice enough when we visited. The flats are built around a private courtyard and I recently found out I know someone who used to live there and never had any problems.
i've told them the 2nd december for moving in, not given notice on where i am yet, leaving it until the last minute which means i have to give notice first thing in the morning! more…
that is so not true! somewhere inside you know that is not the case.
Congratulations on the flat. When do you move? Tis good news to be sure, but certainly leaves you a lot to do, no wonder you are stressed and feeling miserable.
good luck honey, you're being wise. also check out the neighbourhood/neighbours - my friend took a cheap flat only to find out her neighbours are deaf and like watching tv at 2am - real loud. She is now suffering from lack of sleep!
I'm glad to see you here, and sorry that the job/flat aren't doing so well, but definitely glad the wedding went well, i remember how much you were dreading it.
Kick him out of your life forever, hopefully you can move on.
you're doing just great, and would you really want a rebound relationship? what happened hurt you deep and its easier for us to say 'go out and meet someone' than the actual doing is.
nice move with the tapdancing, I'd never be so brave!
Hey I am glad u went for the dance class. It is a good to do something new and something fun when u r feeling low. Long time back I had joined a salsa class. I didnt continue it. But it has given me a chance to comeout of my gloomy thoughts and made me feel worthy...
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hiya, good to see you are so busy, and keeping positive, is it as you expected having your own place again?
Do make time to do things for you, nothing as nice as unplugging the phone and having a long soak or watching back to back girlie films with a bottle of wine!
not stpid honey, just too nice, and probably still wishing things can work out.
Why not wait til you are settled in yor new flat, he is home from hospial and you are grounded. If he still calls for you when he is home then perhaps he is more gnbuine, however sounds more like he has heard you aremoving on and he is trying to hold you ba more…
wooopeee!
it does sound good - i once moved from a flat which up two flights of stairs with no life, to another flat which was up two flights of stairs with no life AND a basement cellar which was down two flights of stairs!
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In response to: "Stressing" 17 days old
by happy28 Pro
yay! hope you have/had a wonderful and relaxing evening, gawd, i'm dreading packing.
you and me both need to chill with the stressing, although i find blogging does wonders to calm me!
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In response to: "Having a bad day" 18 days old
by happy28 Pro
aaaaaaghhhhh! more…
In response to: "Having a bad day" 18 days old
by flojo666 Pro
I'm feeling a little better thanks. My new flat is a few minutes drive away from here, I've had mixed reviews about the area but it looked nice enough when we visited. The flats are built around a private courtyard and I recently found out I know someone who used to live there and never had any problems.
December will be busy for us bo more…
In response to: "Having a bad day" 18 days old
by happy28 Pro
is the new flat in the same neighbourhood? so december will be a busy month for you and me both then! so exciting.
hope you're feeling a bit less blue
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In response to: "Having a bad day" 18 days old
by flojo666 Pro
i've told them the 2nd december for moving in, not given notice on where i am yet, leaving it until the last minute which means i have to give notice first thing in the morning! more…
In response to: "Having a bad day" 18 days old
by happy28 Pro
that is so not true! somewhere inside you know that is not the case.
Congratulations on the flat. When do you move? Tis good news to be sure, but certainly leaves you a lot to do, no wonder you are stressed and feeling miserable.
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In response to: "I think I've found it!!!" 22 days old
by happy28 Pro
well? what news? :??: more…
In response to: "I think I've found it!!!" 27 days old
by happy28 Pro
oh fingers crossed - give them a call and tell them u want it first thing, see if they can maybe take a debit card payment holding deposit.
fingers crossed! more…
In response to: "Knitting and dancing" 30 days old
by happy28 Pro
keeping fingers crossed u go and it goes well. Seems like you have a hell of a lot on!
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In response to: "Flat hunting" 31 days old
by happy28 Pro
good luck honey, you're being wise. also check out the neighbourhood/neighbours - my friend took a cheap flat only to find out her neighbours are deaf and like watching tv at 2am - real loud. She is now suffering from lack of sleep!
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In response to: "This and that........" 31 days old
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In response to: "This and that........" 31 days old
by happy28 Pro
Hiya
I'm glad to see you here, and sorry that the job/flat aren't doing so well, but definitely glad the wedding went well, i remember how much you were dreading it.
Kick him out of your life forever, hopefully you can move on.
Thinking of you
Hugs
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by flojo666 Pro
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In response to: "I know what my problem is!" 74 days old
by happy28 Pro
you're doing just great, and would you really want a rebound relationship? what happened hurt you deep and its easier for us to say 'go out and meet someone' than the actual doing is.
nice move with the tapdancing, I'd never be so brave!
huge hugs
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In response to: "anti depressants" 74 days old
by happy28 Pro
hey
nice to see you back. remember we're here to listen when you need us
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In response to: "I know what my problem is!" 74 days old
by honeydews [Member]
Hey I am glad u went for the dance class. It is a good to do something new and something fun when u r feeling low. Long time back I had joined a salsa class. I didnt continue it. But it has given me a chance to comeout of my gloomy thoughts and made me feel worthy...
Dont worry u r not the only one who takes more than 2 years to comeou more…
In response to: "RISING PETROL PRICES" 110 days old
by Prestito [Visitor]
Hi, thanks for sharing the information, Hope all this might be because of the current recession.
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In response to: "Time flies" 143 days old
by happy28 Pro
oh, you need to change the 'about me' section of your blog, no longer living at home and you seem so much more positive!
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In response to: "Time flies" 144 days old
by happy28 Pro
hiya, good to see you are so busy, and keeping positive, is it as you expected having your own place again?
Do make time to do things for you, nothing as nice as unplugging the phone and having a long soak or watching back to back girlie films with a bottle of wine!
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In response to: "all moved" 158 days old
by happy28 Pro
glad to hear you're moved in, but the leak sounds a pain and I woulda thought that would be the landlords job, but what do i know?
good to hear you sounding so positive,
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In response to: "busy, busy, busy" 178 days old
by happy28 Pro
not stpid honey, just too nice, and probably still wishing things can work out.
Why not wait til you are settled in yor new flat, he is home from hospial and you are grounded. If he still calls for you when he is home then perhaps he is more gnbuine, however sounds more like he has heard you aremoving on and he is trying to hold you ba more…
In response to: "changes" 190 days old
by kevinwilson Pro
i hope things work out for you all... more…
In response to: "I'm moving!!!!!" 190 days old
by honeydews [Member]
All the best dear! Hope you enjoy ur new life.... more…
In response to: "Everything has been arranged" 191 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]
cool. Nothing is more excitng 9and stressful) as a house move! more…
In response to: "I'm moving!!!!!" 192 days old
by happy28 Pro
i'd suggest taking a class, but you've already done that ;) so I'm all outta ideas, the only people I meet are through friends of friends!
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In response to: "Everything has been arranged" 192 days old
by happy28 Pro
congrats to you as well! looks like things are moving on for us both!
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In response to: "Everything has been arranged" 192 days old
by flojo666 Pro
I'm knackered just thinking about it! :P more…
In response to: "Everything has been arranged" 192 days old
by kevinwilson Pro
wooopeee!
it does sound good - i once moved from a flat which up two flights of stairs with no life, to another flat which was up two flights of stairs with no life AND a basement cellar which was down two flights of stairs!
i was KNACKERED! more…
In response to: "Everything has been arranged" 192 days old
by flojo666 Pro
Thanks :0) more…
In response to: "Everything has been arranged" 192 days old
by whoknows [Member]
Really exciting! Hope it all works out for you, it is so good to have your own place. more…