Well I was doing rather well until Saturday afternoon in resisting the urge to contact SD....... I sent him a text asking him whether we were going to speak to sort things out or whether we were just going to forget it. As I have recieved no reply I'm hazarding a guess that's it's over. I am determined that this time I'm not going to contact him again in a couple of months as I can not put myself through this again. I am going to post back to him the engagement ring he bought me as I can not be bothered with the hassle seeing as the most I've been offered so far is £50 and I know he'll be gutted to find out it's only worth that considering how much he paid for it. I'm also contemplating writing him a letter, but I'm not sure I will actually go through with it. If I did I'd be telling him how he's amde me feel and I'll ask questions which I know I won't get the answers to. Perhaps I'll delay sending the ring for a couple of weeks and when my head is a little less messed up I might think about sticking a note in telling him what he's missing out on and how I'm going to go ou there and find myself someone who is more deserving of my love and affection.
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- Monday, 28. Apr, 2008 @ 22:38:31
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happylady1
- Tuesday, 29. Apr, 2008 @ 13:56:34
Hi ya, I do feel that he is a very controlling person and perhaps the right one for you.
In one of your previous posts you mention counselling. Just wanted to say that it was the best thing I ever have done, it really helped me cope with things that had happened to me and understand the anger inside of me. If you go to your GP they might be able to recommend someone. We in Sheffield have an online Sheffield Forum and wonder if there's anything similar in your area where you could get recommendations. -
He does'nt seem particularly committed , though maybe you should wait a few days before making any definite decision , and perhaps 'phone rather than text him , to politely ask him to honestly tell you how he feels about your relationship , good luck , - Martin.